We often say we know what must be restrained—but we do not act.
The question is why.
Modern civilization possesses unprecedented destructive capacity. This fact alone changes how societies behave. When such capacity becomes highly concentrated, fear does not arise from intent, but from imbalance. Others must calculate not what is planned, but what could be done. Silence, compliance, acceleration, and imitation follow—not because they are chosen freely, but because they reduce exposure.
This is how hegemonic practice works at a structural level. It does not require malice. It does not depend on ideology. It emerges when power—military, economic, technological—accumulates beyond balancing limits. In such conditions, even restraint by the dominant actor cannot dissolve fear, because restraint is voluntary, while capacity is not.
A system in which one actor holds a disproportionate share of destructive force becomes unstable by design. Others adapt defensively. Competition intensifies. Trust thins. The system drifts toward divergence, not because anyone desires conflict, but because imbalance distorts behavior across the whole.
This pattern is not unique to geopolitics. It appears wherever monopolization replaces proportion. Capitalism collapses when markets concentrate beyond correction. Democracy weakens when influence accumulates beyond accountability. Destructive power follows the same rule.
Dialogue begins not by assigning blame, but by recognizing structure. Stability does not require virtue. It requires limits and balance. Not because power is evil, but because concentration breeds fear—and fear erodes harmony. Without harmony, coexistence becomes impossible.